Monthly Archives: June 2017

Thought #4

Blog #5 23rd June, 2017 – 0400 Hrs

GOING away!!!

    People have always fled from place to place and time to time for all purposes and reasons. Some fled for the safety, some for overcoming the calamity of Nature  and surroundings, some for revenge other for honour and dreams… In a way, everyone has fled in at least a point of time in life, may be in the mind of frustrated and irritated state to the state of calmness and serenity. Some unwillingly go away to achieve something and that something requires the leaving their personal comfort zone and yes, friends.

            People who love each other, be it Friends, relationships, family or even the worst Enemies, “yes, even enemies go away sometimes and we feel the change which we call – missing”, will always know when someone leaves. They feel it and relates to the feeling of missing someone.  This action is a consequence to the expression.

            People misunderstand other people who fled because they don’t get the point and requirement, they don’t stand in your shoes! Some may clear this misunderstanding and some can’t, hence leads a series of other cravings and feelings mostly of negative context or effect. The worst part is that it gets elevated with time but steeps to the bottom in due time – Time heals. But the reason lies in the understanding the purpose or reason or the circumstance because of which someone leaves and goes AWAY.

            Even if someone understands why the other person is leaving, they fail to cope up the fact that the person is leaving and sorrow unveils itself from deep in the heart. This sorrow ends only when that someone returns to the person or the place from where it started. Another case would be the post-fled case where the person understands the purpose and reason why he/she left but will never accept that he/she might never speak until he/she returns.


            Thinking to speak and to Speak are entirely different. In most of the case, due to purpose and reason a person might not find time to speak but he/she may think of speaking to that someone yet can’t. Thus creates a lot of consequences and cravings to meet increases.


     “Going away is never simple, not to the doer. No matter how simple it may appear to the sender or the observer, its exponentially harder to leave form a place where you actually belong and you are safe and comfortable in. Yet Humans are marvelous and tend to show incredible behaviour and expressing such feeling is the essence of all Humanity”


“No physical distance can affect my relationship to my loved ones no matter the time the distance prevails. I’ll cross all the depths to comeback if I really want to and YES! I will”




Thought #3

Blog #4 23rd June, 2017 – 0325 Hrs

Missing someone

missing someone

This word “Missing” is critically used in most of the sensitive and emotional cases, rarely used in the cheerful way. The best way to express it…., yes! It’s is a feeling, an abstract for feeling someone’s absence. So, one will show elevated emotional sensitivity through words and the actions and results in weeping or sobbing in some cases. The best expressed is in words only.

            One would tell another person that he/she misses him/her or he/she missed him/her. This is how it works. Anyways the beauty is in its meaning. The purpose of this expression or abstract is showing how much someone craves one’s presence and how much the absence of that someone hurts him. It also means that someone reminds of some other one and thus may feel happy or sad as he/she may be away from him/her. Thus its actually very complicated and over-rated.

            The literal meaning is entirely different and must be clearly explained obviously not the human but to the computer. Computers if not trained for this exception case in terms of the literal meaning may change the entire scenario. From the sensitive part with a feeling it shifts to very rude statement. The meaning is – forgetting, not reminding, lost or losing something or someone, etc. Hence literal meaning is important to be considered and exempted from its actual and expected way.

            People who usually use this word is mostly in the state of remembering the person with or without the knowledge of himself/herself. People feel that someone’s presence and absence matters most and the feeling for the opposite elevates and leads to expression of this expression and hence this words finds it use.

            Some comments and arguments on social media goes like –“Missing me! Don’t miss me, I’m always there”, “I’ll be there when you miss me”, “Miss me to send me your love to me”, etc. But if looked in a way with the literal reference it is well said as What I would say – “Missing me! Don’t ! Keep me safe in your thoughts.” The former statement quoted clearly depends on the meaning but keeps the essence of the original expression of the abstract – MISSING SOMEONE.

            “Forgetting and remembering someone, may be for good or bad, happy or being sad, always needs a support of word for expression and hence NEVER think the words cannot be used for sensitive expression of feelings.”